1. Honeymoon. Everything is new and exciting!
2. Crisis/Cultural Shock. The novelty wears off, and anxiety sets in, as you start to notice real differences in lifestyles, social customs, communication, etc.; you find yourself asking things like, "Why can't they just do it this way???" [or maybe, "In this town there is a Korean market and a Turkish market--why isn't there an American one, too?!" :) ]
3. Recovery and Adjustment. You begin to feel more comfortable in your new environment, and more accepting of the culture and the differences.
I've been working in Germany in three months now, and I'd like to think that I am already at the recovery phase (even though I think I see a few symptoms of "culture shock", like sleeping more now than I probably did as a child). There are many things I like about Germany, including some that surprised me. For example, I thought it would drive me crazy that nearly everything is closed on Sundays. I am actually starting to like this; it kind-of forces you to chill out...of course, going out-of-town on the weekends helps, too. :) Here are a few other random things I like:
1. I don't feel like people are always trying to sell me stuff I don't need. So many examples...Here are two:
- The salesman who sold me my cell phone plan told me that his store didn't have the best price on a cell phone (in Germany you can buy a cell phone without a contract), and suggested I go somewhere else to buy the phone.
- I stopped in an electronic store to buy an antenna for my TV. The guy told me that all I needed was the little antenna that cost 10 Euro. When I took it back the next day (because I could only see 3 channels), he GAVE me a cable so that I could put the antenna closer to the window. Seriously? Don't you want to sell me the biggest, most expensive antenna you have?!? He was right, of course; I now get about 20 channels.
2. The price you see is the price you pay. Taxes are already figured in, so you know what you are paying. This is not just at the supermarket. No extra "taxes and fees" on your cable or phone bill--that 40 Euro plan actually costs 40 Euro.
3. I'm learning what produce is actually in season. Before coming to Germany, I couldn't tell you when many fruits and vegetables were available locally. Believe me, if you're here when asparagus is in season, you'll know.
4. Cars actually stop for pedestrians in crossings. The first few times I saw someone walk into a crosswalk without even looking, I thought, "Wow, she's brave." (I'm not completely acclimated--I still look.)
5. Rote Grütze. It's made from fruit (cherries, raspberries, Johannisbeeren) and SUGAR, and it's sweet enough for the American palate. I have only had it with a kind of vanilla yogurt, but I can imagine it on ice cream, with cream cheese...so many possibilities!
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6. Taking the train. I've always liked taking road trips, but I like driving, too. I LOVE the train. Mostly I think I like it because I can just sit and stare out the window; there's usually something nice to look at. Plus, if you somehow got tired of Germany, in just a few hours you could be in another country!


#2 and #6 - oh my gosh, both such HUGE things I love about Europe. I love having my money out before getting the check. And that's another thing, I never carried cash in the US but here you have to.
ReplyDeleteNow you need to try fresh Rote Grütze in restaurants. It will be different every time and probably have less sugar than the store bought stuff. It's one of my favorites.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice actually to hear your experience of culture shock. I've just been looking at the idea of repatriation shock - which quite alarmingly seems to last 3 times longer than the initial culture shock! But having read your post I might actually now just try the Rote Grütze (which I imagined would be super sour) and relax!
ReplyDeleteYou will get used to the closed Sundays... it is actually nice now and it forces you to do something other than GROCERY shop! :-)
ReplyDeleteand I love #2 also! Even though in DK we pay 25% tax... at least there are no surprises at the register! :-)
@Alex--I didn't use to carry cash, either. I'm still getting used to it!
ReplyDelete@German Gems--I haven't seen it yet, but I will definitely start looking. Oddly enough, I haven't had that much "German food" since I have been here.
@Fiona--I was thinking of sending you the info after I read your post about repatriation. I bet there are a lot of things you'll miss...even some that will surprise you!
@Kelli--25%?! Wow. Here it is ONLY 19%
#1, 2 & 3 have been HUGE for me - I love it! One of the biggest things I've found - that I don't get to experience very often, not having a car myself - is how good the drivers are here! I never see road rage or people acting ridiculous on the Auotbahn. It's an expensive privilege to have ones' license here and people take that responsibility seriously. Whenever I'm back on the highways in CA, I just want to scream (and come back home)! ;)
ReplyDeleteI like reading this type of post. I'm moving to Germany in two days, and I appreciate reading the thoughs of people like yourself who've been through the adjustment I'm about to go through.
ReplyDeleteI'm really looking forward to the trains and public transportation in general- public transit is miserable in South Florida, and I find that as I get closer to flying out of Miami, I'm really looking forward to not having to drive in South Florida traffic for a while.
Rote Grütze sounds delicious. I'll definitely have to try that.
@shoegirl--I completely agree! Drivers have to be good, because pedestrians walk out in front of them :-)
ReplyDelete@Steven--congratulations on the move! Enjoy that Florida sun, because you are moving right about the time the temp is going to drop another 10 degrees (°F). BTW, I would never ride public transportation in Texas, but I love it here!
I got here on Saturday, and it started snowing today. Niiiiice timing. LOL.
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